Our Adolescent Service
When rangatahi (adolescents) engage in harmful sexual behaviour, it can deeply impact others, their whānau, and themselves. These situations can be confronting and complex, however they require action to prevent further harm and to support the young person towards a safe, meaningful, and fulfilling.
Who is this service for?
Stop provides free, confidential, and non-judgmental support. The Adolescent Service supports rangatahi aged 13–18 who have engaged in harmful sexual behaviour, along with their parents, caregivers, and professionals involved in their care.
If a young person has:
• Used force, coercion, or power in sexual behaviour.
• Taken or shared sexual images.
• Accessed objectionable or child sexual abuse material.
• Directed sexual behaviour toward younger or vulnerable others.
• Engaged in sexual behaviour involving animals.
You are in the right place, and we are here to help.
Your journey with Stop
Talk to us by clicking on ‘’Contact Us" or phone 03 353 0257.
Call and find out if we are the right service for you and your family (whānau).
During this discussion, we will hear your story and make a plan, alongside you, for the most appropriate way forward. We will outline what you can expect, which may include being referred to a more appropriate service.
If Stop is the right service, referral forms are to be completed - including all relevant information and must be signed by the young person and their parent/caregiver.
This takes between 10 -12 weeks and helps determine intervention goals and the best therapeutic approach to meet these needs.
Intervention is the next step in the journey and can be anything from 3-18 months. It can consist of individual and group sessions and working with whānau. Throughout your time in the programme we will review your progress.
As part of our ongoing support, Stop will follow up with you and your whānau 3-6 months after your completion of the programme, providing support when you need it.
Talk to us by clicking on ‘’Contact Us" or phone 03 353 0257.
Call and find out if we are the right service for you and your family (whānau).
During this discussion, we will hear your story and make a plan, alongside you, for the most appropriate way forward. We will outline what you can expect, which may include being referred to a more appropriate service.
If Stop is the right service, referral forms are to be completed - including all relevant information and must be signed by the young person and their parent/caregiver.
This takes between 10 -12 weeks and helps determine intervention goals and the best therapeutic approach to meet these needs.
Intervention is the next step in the journey and can be anything from 3-18 months. It can consist of individual and group sessions and working with whānau. Throughout your time in the programme we will review your progress.
As part of our ongoing support, Stop will follow up with you and your whānau 3-6 months after your completion of the programme, providing support when you need it.
Whānau matters
When a young person has engaged in harmful or concerning sexual behaviour, it can evoke a wide range of emotions, including shock, disbelief, anger, guilt, fear, or sadness. These reactions are normal. At Stop, we recognize that such behaviour affects not only the rangatahi, but also their whānau and guardians.
It is important for adults supporting rangatahi to remain calm and take the situation seriously. Parents, guardians, and other support people play a crucial role in this process by providing reassurance, hope, and consistent support. Stop works alongside rangatahi, their whānau, and guardians, offering guidance, practical tools, and culturally safe strategies to help them respond safely, strengthen relationships, and build hope and resilience for the future.
Our locations
Stop is the only specialist community-based organization that delivers adolescent assessment and intervention in Te Waipounamu (South Island):
- Whakatū (Nelson)
- Wairau (Blenheim)
- Ōtautahi (Christchurch)
- Te Tihi o Maru (Timaru)
- Ōtepoti (Dunedin)
- Murihiku (Invercargill)
- Te Tai Poutini (West Coast)
Adolescent Service Forms
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All client information is treated as confidential, except in the following circumstances:
- When a client provides consent for information to be shared with a specific organization or individual
- When disclosure is required by law. When care and protection concern about a young person are raised.
- When there is a threat to harm oneself or another person
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Yes. Our Adolescent Service is funded by Oranga Tamariki and Te Whatu Ora Health ensuring there is no cost to clients for accessing support.
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In some cases, sessions may be done online. This is considered on a case-by-case basis and dependent on individual client circumstances. This is usually only considered following face-to-face meetings.
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Family/whanau involvement is a crucial part of our work in the Adolescent service. There may be times that we offer parent/caregiver-only sessions with a Stop Clinician and when required, onward referrals to support agencies for parents/guardians.
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Certainly not. While harmful sexual behaviour is very serious and must be addressed due to its impact on those who have been harmed, it has a much lower rate of recidivism than other offences such as burglary or physical assault. Research indicates that adolescents who have engaged in harmful sexual behaviour, and who then complete specialized therapeutic interventions, have a very low likelihood of reoffending. In fact, after five years with no further concerns, their rate of harmful sexual behaviour is comparable to that of the general population.
At Stop, we see adolescents make significant and lasting changes in their lives, whether that involves healing from past victimization, improving their relationships and communication, or becoming more accountable and skilled at managing their behaviour. These changes play an important role in supporting them to lead safe and positive lives.
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No, not necessarily, there is an array of factors relevant to someone's decision to engage in harmful sexual behaviour. Importantly, most people who have been sexually harmed do not go on to harm others. That said, sexual victimization is in the background of several of our clients and addressing the impacts of that can be part of someone becoming safer with their own behaviors.
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Yes. Increasingly, harmful or concerning sexual behaviours also occur in online spaces. Exposure to pornography, sharing sexual images, or engaging with peers through digital platforms can influence how young people understand consent, relationships, and sexuality.
Stop supports rangatahi, whānau, and professionals to navigate these complex online influences safely, promoting healthy digital boundaries, respectful online behaviour, and informed conversations about pornography and consent. -
Referrals are most often made by Oranga Tamariki or other third parties, including police, GPs, or social service professionals. In some instances, we can consider self-referrals, through whanau or community to our service.
Professionals are encouraged to contact Stop directly to discuss the most appropriate referral pathway for each client.
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Yes. Stop recognizes and celebrates the diversity of our clients’ needs, providing culturally responsive, accessible and inclusive services that meet the needs of all communities – including tangata whaikaha(intellectual , physical disability, neurodiversity and learning difficulties) , LGBTQIA+, Māori and Pasifika Refugee, faith based , migrant and multi-cultural communities.
Stop has taken the Pride Pledge, a values-based commitment that demonstrates our dedication to the safety, visibility, and inclusion of rainbow members of our community and workforce.
We aspire to integrate the principles of Te Tiriti o Waitangi within our practice, through the integration of Māori frameworks and models, ensuring our ongoing commitment to safe cultural practice. We prioritize safe, evidence-based care, recognizing the importance of whānau, community, and cultural context in supporting positive change and wellbeing for all clients.
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Talk therapy
We understand that starting intervention can feel uncertain, and it’s natural to have questions about what to expect. Our intervention process involves talk therapy with a designated clinician, whānau sessions, and, where appropriate, group therapy. These sessions provide a safe, supportive space to explore thoughts, feelings, and behaviours in ways that promote growth and positive change. Each intervention is grounded in evidence-based practice and tailored to meet the individual needs of each rangatahi and their whānau.
Clinicians
Our compassionate and highly skilled team of clinicians come from diverse professional backgrounds, including social work, counselling, and psychology. They bring specialist expertise in working with rangatahi, their whānau, and wider support systems, and are committed to creating a safe, supportive, and empowering therapeutic environment.
Therapeutic approaches
Stop draws on a range of evidence-based approaches and diverse clinical and cultural practices, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT), the Good Lives Model, Psychoeducation, Motivational Interviewing, Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP), and Māori cultural models of practice. All interventions are strengths-based, trauma-informed, and tailored to support rangatahi with a wide range of backgrounds, experiences, and complex needs.
Talk to us Today
If you would like to know more or talk to our friendly staff, please give us a call on 03 353 0257 or fill out our Contact Us form.
Our free service protects and respects our client’s privacy, both in terms of face-to-face contact and client records. All enquiries are confidential.