Our Adult Service
When an adult engages in harmful sexual behaviour, it can have serious and lasting impacts on others, on whānau, and on the individual themselves. These situations are serious, confronting, and complex, but addressing them is essential.
We provide free, confidential, and non-judgmental support through a combination of individual, group, and family therapy to help:
- Understand your behaviour and take responsibility.
- Learn skills to prevent further harm.
- Make positive changes to lead a safe and meaningful life free from sexual harm.
- Include your whānau or support network to strengthen support and accountability.
Who is this service for?
Stop supports adults (pakeke), 18+, who have engaged in harmful sexual behaviours or have concerning sexual thoughts or fantasies that, if acted upon, could cause harm:
If someone has:
- Engaged in harmful sexual behaviour, involving power imbalance, coercion, lack of consent or force.
- Recognise a desire to stop accessing child sexual abuse material online.
- Sent sexual messages or images to someone under the age of 16.
- Noticed their use of adult pornography escalating into risky or harmful content, including violence or under 18 material.
You are in the right place, and we are here to help.
Your journey with Stop
Talk to us or call us on 03 353 0257. We will have a brief discussion and establish how we can help you.
During the initial discussion we will determine the most appropriate pathway and explain what to expect (in some cases we may need to refer you to another service).
If Stop is the right service, referral forms are to be completed - including all relevant information and must be signed by the client.
Your journey with Stop then starts with the Assessment phase. This takes up to eight weeks and is where we work with you to assess risk and needs or risk and protective facts (strengths) and what therapy is required.
Intervention is the next step in the journey and can be anything from 3 sessions to 12 months. It can consist of individual and group sessions and working with whānau. Throughout your time in the programme we will review your progress.
Intervention is now finished. If at any stage in the future you need our help or support, please contact us.
Talk to us or call us on 03 353 0257. We will have a brief discussion and establish how we can help you.
During the initial discussion we will determine the most appropriate pathway and explain what to expect (in some cases we may need to refer you to another service).
If Stop is the right service, referral forms are to be completed - including all relevant information and must be signed by the client.
Your journey with Stop then starts with the Assessment phase. This takes up to eight weeks and is where we work with you to assess risk and needs or risk and protective facts (strengths) and what therapy is required.
Intervention is the next step in the journey and can be anything from 3 sessions to 12 months. It can consist of individual and group sessions and working with whānau. Throughout your time in the programme we will review your progress.
Intervention is now finished. If at any stage in the future you need our help or support, please contact us.
Whānau matters
When someone you care about has engaged in harmful or concerning sexual behaviour, it can trigger an array of emotions such as of shock, disbelief, anger, shame, fear, or sadness. These reactions are normal.
At Stop, we recognise that harmful sexual behaviour affects not only the individual, but also those around them. If a family member is engaging in intervention at Stop and has consented to the involvement of their whānau or partner, support is available to help navigate this process. We offer both individual and combined partner work session for family / partner.
We provide partners / whānau with a safe space to be heard, ask questions, and access emotional and practical support. Through education, coping tools, and advocacy, we help loved to understand concerning behaviours, respond safely, and strengthen relationships and wellbeing for the future.
Our locations
Stop is the only specialist community-based organisation that delivers adult assessment and intervention for harmful sexual behaviour in Te Waipounamu (South Island):
- Whakatū (Nelson)
- Wairau (Blenheim)
- Ōtautahi (Christchurch)
- Te Tihi o Maru (Timaru)
- Ōtepoti (Dunedin)
- Murihiku (Invercargill)
Adult Service Forms
Adult Referral Form - Word
Adult Referral Form - PDF
Adult Ideation Referral Form - Word
Adult Ideation Referral Form - PDF
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All client information is treated as confidential, except in the following circumstances:
- When a client provides consent for information to be shared with a specific organisation or individual.
- When disclosure is required by law.
- When a report of concern is raised.
- Based on confidentiality provisions, reports will be shared with referring agencies/ professionals.
- When there is a threat to harm oneself or another person.
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Yes: Our Adult Service is funded by the Department of Corrections, the Ministry of Social Development, and the Ministry of Health, ensuring there is no cost to clients for accessing support.
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Yes, we do accommodate for some individual and group therapy sessions to be facilitated online for clients who reside outside the areas where Stop has designated offices / therapy rooms. Face to face and in person sessions are still the preference.
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No. There are several factors that contribute to someone engaging in sexual harm towards children. There is only statistically about 2% of individuals who engaged in sexual harm against children who meet the definition for pedophilia.
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Family / whānau involvement is strongly encouraged as part of our work in the Adult service. If a family member is engaging in intervention at Stop and has consented to the involvement of their whānau or partner, support is available in the form of individual and / or combined partner sessions.
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Referrals are often made through a social service professional, lawyers, police, GP’s, or therapists. Clients under Corrections, will likely be referred by their probation officer. Professionals are encouraged to contact Stop directly to discuss the most appropriate referral pathway for each client
To reduce the barriers to accessing support, we do accept self-referrals, however we encourage that contact is made with Stop to confirm details, and criteria for referral.
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Yes. Stop recognises and celebrates the diversity of our clients’ needs, providing culturally responsive, accessible and inclusive services that meet the needs of all communities – including tangata whaikaha (intellectual, physical disability, neurodiversity and learning difficulties), LGBTQIA+, Māori and Pasifika, refugee, faith based, migrant and multi-cultural communities.
Stop has taken the Pride Pledge, a values-based commitment that demonstrates our dedication to the safety, visibility, and inclusion of rainbow members of our community and workforce.
We aspire to integrate the principles of Te Tiriti o Waitangi within our practice, through the integration of Māori frameworks and models, ensuring our ongoing commitment to cultural practice. We prioritize safe, evidence-based care, recognizing the importance of whānau, community, and cultural context in supporting positive change and wellbeing for all clients.
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Talk therapy
We understand that beginning intervention can feel uncertain and its natural to have questions about what to expect. Our intervention process involves talk therapy with a designated clinician with one-to-one sessions, partner / whānau sessions, and, where appropriate, group therapy. These sessions provide a safe, supportive space to explore thoughts, feelings and behaviours in ways that promote growth and positive change. Each intervention is grounded in evidence-based practice and tailored to meet the individual needs of clients and their whānau.
Clinicians
Our compassionate and highly skilled team of clinicians come from diverse professional backgrounds, including social work, counselling, and psychology. They bring specialist expertise in working with adults, their whānau, and wider support systems, and are committed to creating a safe, supportive, and empowering therapeutic environment.
Therapeutic approaches
Stop draws on a range of evidence-based approaches, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), the Good Lives Model, Risk & Responsivity Model, Motivational Interviewing and Māori cultural models of practice. All interventions are strengths focused, trauma-informed, and tailored to support clients with a wide range of backgrounds, experiences, and complex needs.
Talk to us Today
If you would like to know more or talk to our friendly staff, please give us a call on 03 353 0257 or fill out our Contact Us form.
Our free service protects and respects our client’s privacy, both in terms of face-to-face contact and client records. All enquiries are confidential.